I was reading a devotion today that was taken from 1 John
4:7. The idea of the devotion was that we have to know God in order to be able
to have a true unconditional love for others. And as Christians, that is
exactly how we are supposed to be toward those around us. 1 John 4:7 says, “Beloved,
let us love one another, for love is from God; and everyone who loves is born
of God and knows God.” In other words, we have to be true born again believers
and followers of Jesus in order to have this kind of love. Not only that, but
we are also commanded to share that love with those around us, Christian or
not.
This got me to thinking about what the Apostle Paul said in
2 Corinthians 6:14. “Do not be bound together with unbelievers; for what
partnership have righteousness and lawlessness, or what fellowship has light
with darkness?” This verse is especially true of marriage. Should a Christian marry
a non-believer? No. Why? Because we are yoking our self with unrighteousness. This
is a serious matter for Christians to consider. So you “fall in love” with
someone. That is just a feeling. It will come and go no matter what you do.
Real love is a decision, a commitment. This is an oath we make to choose to love
someone through thick and thin. This implies the unconditional love that only
God has. And the only way we can share it is if His Spirit is alive in us. So
by this we understand that an unsaved person in incapable of making this
commitment. He or she does not have that kind of love to give. And we all want
our spouse to love us like that. So dating, becoming engaged or getting married
is a bad idea when it concerns the bond of a believer to a non-believer. This
is asking for trouble. No marriage is perfect. And if God is not at the center
of a marriage then when the storms of life hit they will hit hard.
Just some food for thought.
Be blessed.
Ev. W. Shannon Caplinger